Online Therapy for Men & Couples in California

Based in the East Bay, near Berkeley · Online sessions throughout California

I’m a California-licensed therapist offering online therapy to adults and couples throughout California. I work with adults of all genders, with a particular focus on men’s mental health, communication, and recurring relationship patterns.

You may feel constant pressure to be "doing okay," while privately feeling overwhelmed, numb, resentful, or unsure how to move forward. You may struggle to communicate what you're feeling, find yourself shutting down or becoming defensive during conflict, or feel unsure how to repair things when conversations go wrong. Over time, these patterns can leave you feeling stuck, misunderstood, or distant from the people who matter most to you.

My goal is to create a space where that pressure can ease, and where difficult emotions and conversations feel easier to hold. This work often centers on helping individuals and couples navigate relationship conflict, emotional disconnection, loneliness, difficulty understanding or expressing emotions, mixed neurotype relationships, complex caregiving, and major life transitions. Together, we'll make sense of the experiences shaping your world with curiosity, rediscover forgotten parts of yourself, explore new perspectives, build practical skills, and make room for creativity, humor, and the type of clarity that allows genuine change to take root.

I also provide career and executive functioning coaching to those seeking support with planning, prioritization, organization, and follow-through across work, home, and everyday life.

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Therapeutic Services

Therapy for Men

A collaborative space for men to better understand themselves, communicate more openly, and shift recurring relationship patterns.

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Couples Therapy

Couples therapy for communication, conflict resolution, trust, relationship repair, and navigating major transitions, including separation and divorce.

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Career & Executive Functioning Coaching

For professionals seeking support with career transitions, burnout, leadership, and executive functioning.

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Rose Elia Chahla, MA, LPCC

Meet Rose

I’m Rose Elia Chahla, MA, LPCC. My style is warm and engaged, with space to reflect and explore what feels difficult. I listen closely and share observations as we work together on what matters to you.

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Specialties

Attachment & Relationship Therapy

Couples therapy explores the attachment patterns, communication styles, and relational dynamics shaping your relationship, including conflict, mixed neurotype relationships, trust after betrayal, separation, and divorce.

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